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Is Fit Shaming a Thing?

Over the past few weeks I've been hearing a lot about Maria Kang , the fitness and lifestyle blogger who was under fire for her now famous headline that read,  "What's your excuse?"…

"What would you do if I lost weight?"

My best friend and I were in the throes of the same tired conversation we had every New Year's Day: Are we more than friends? It never ended with any resolution. He did not hesitate. "I woul…

Real World Science: Dealing With the “It Girls” in Your Life

Image by Ryan VanWilliams via Flickr/CreativeCommons I’m sure you’re reading this because you have a case of the Itgirls. I apologize for your condition, for it’s a terrible disease that causes pathe…

The Fine Line Separating Exploitation and Empowerment

Photo by Ryan VanWilliams via Flickr Creative Commons Somewhere between the realms of extreme booty shaking and intense empowerment conferences, a very thin line exists. This barrier encourages women…

Going Greek: Traditionally Black, Traditionally White, or Traditionally You?

Image by Ryan VanWilliams via Flickr creative commons The presence of the divine nine has always been heavy and unwavering. For those readers who aren’t very familiar with the upstanding sororities a…

Lamenting Over the Casket of the Real Black Woman

Image by Unknown via Flickr I’m here today to pay my respects to the black woman, because she was murdered. I’m not positive who the real culprit is, though I might have an idea: The Mammy said tha…

What To Do When You Want To Do Too Much

Your interests stretch farther than the eye can see. Is there such thing as being too well-rounded? There might be such a thing, and it’s really been weighing on me for the last few years. What do yo…

Who Cares What You Haters Feel?

Here's the debate we're all sick of hearing about; if you dye your hair, is it really natural? It is something that is talked about in our natural hair community all the time. In addition, i…

The Importance of Finding an Outlet

My longtime friend called me frustrated the other day. It wasn't one of those specific frustrations that you can blame on one thing. It was worse; a general frustration with life. She and I have …

Natural Girls United: Dolls with Ethnic Inspired Hair Styles

As a child, I remember playing with dolls that where beautiful. But they never looked like me. Their hair, features and skin tones did not match mine. I always wondered - if my Barbie doll is beauti…

A Black Feminist Finding Solace in a White Girls' World

I struggle calling myself a feminist. As an African American woman, it’s hard to unify around a vague cause seemingly dominated by the white female elite. My hesitancy in embracing feminism as a Bl…

Experience: An Unpredictable High Risk Investment

by Terisa Thurman @SfTerisa Experience makes it mark on us in unforeseen ways. No one can tell how that trip to a far off destination will affect the rest of your life. Will you meet your soul mate…

De-cluttering for Love

Image courtesy of vibevixen.com I took it upon myself to de-clutter my love life. You know, similar to re-organizing a closet but instead of getting rid of old, unworn clothes, I was getting rid of g…

So, I’ve Been Thinking About Afros...

When I was in school we had a rule as part of our dress code – that hair must be no more than five centimeters above the head. So no top-knots, no beehives, and definitely no afros. A black girl havi…

Miss Educated. Miss Inspired. Miss Directed. Miss Gifted-And-Going-Far!

Over the past few weeks, I’ve focused on a lot of topics, but have strayed away from my primary focus and goal which is in re-education; Today, I regress. It has occurred to me that many of our daug…

Young, Fly & Sanctified Movement

Jasmine Doster was born in Fairfield, CA on Travis Air force base on February 20, 1988. She was raised in Charleston, SC by a single mother. She was an inquisitive child with much interest and a lead…
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