To pay or not to pay

It all depends upon what sort of woman you want:

After nearly 50 years of feminism, men want to go Dutch.Nearly two-thirds of them — 64 percent — believe women should pay for their share of dates, a survey has found.... As for women, they’re conflicted. Fifty-seven percent of them said they have offered to chip in, even on a first date. But 39 percent said they hoped men would refuse to accept their offer.

First, notice that while 64 percent of men believe women should pay their share, 84 percent of them pick up the tab anyhow.  There are your deltas. Second, no man who believes in traditional marital roles should expect a woman to pay for her share of a date.  If you're looking for a woman who is going to put her responsibilities as a wife and mother first, you're not going to find her if you keep dating women who ask you out, drive, and pay for the date.